GAY PEOPLE'S CHRONICLE
MAY 17, 1996
Evenings Out
It's My Party
Written and directed by Randal Kleiser
Reviewed by Doreen Cudnik
I'd been hearing a lot about It's My Party, the newest in a long line of gayor AIDS« themed films starring straight actors in gay roles (this time Gregory Harrison and Eric Roberts), but was beginning to wonder if the film would ever open in Ohio. Well, the wart is over, as the movie opened the weekend of May 10 at theaters throughout the state.
Aside from the experience of kissing Harrison, Roberts said he found no difterence between portraying a gay man and a straight man "[Nick is not any different because he's gay," the actor said.
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"I don't believe you have to be gay to fealistically portray a man in love with another man," he said.
Being an openly gay writer and director, you would think that Randal Kleiser could have found at least two gay actors in Lus Angeles with Screen Actors Guild cards who would have jumped at the opportunity to play these roles.
Make sure you pack a whole lot of Kleenex prior to seeing this one, because Kleiser pulls. out all the stops, manipulating your emotions until you feel as if you're re-living your most excruciating break up. The story is a familiar--and painful---one for Kleiser, having been inspired by the life and death of his lover Harry Stein, who held a similar farewell gathering prior to his death.
The two main characters, Hollywood drrector Brandon Theis, (Harrison) and Nick Stark (Roberts), a succéssful Løs Angeles architect, are no strangers to the good life. The film opens with flashbacks of fabulous parties at their home in the Holly wood inlls (sign clearly visible in the background), ski trips to Lake Tahoe, and fantastic shots of their vacation in the sunny Greckisles Inone SUCI. N throws a surprise birthday party for his lover, and gigs Brandon a ther oughbred horses a present that would require most of us ordinary folks to second mortgage the of homestead to keep it. But clearly these boys have money and the film makes that apparent mevery shut.
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